In remembrance of things past: stuff that’s gone with the wind
“I felt once more how simple and frugal a thing is happiness: a glass of wine, a roast chestnut, a wretched little brazier, the sound of the sea. Nothing else.”
― Nikos Kazantzakis, Zorba the Greek
I miss lots of things. Some day, you will, too. You’ll tell your children and others who are forced to listen to your nostalgia about the best of what you had and how nobody cares about it any more.
In no particular order, here’s today’s remembrance of things past:
- Being allowed to purchase paregoric and codeine over the counter at a drug store.
- Endive (escarole) and watercress in grocery store produce departments.
- A smaller federal government.
- A society that didn’t expect parents to monitor their kids’ activities 24/7 and actually allowed them to walk or ride bikes to school.
- People who came over to dinner who talked to me around the table rather than talking and texting with people who weren’t there.
- Family doctors who actually treated things rather than sending everyone off to see a specialist who charged a whole lot more money to tell you what you already knew.
- Bubble gum with baseball cards.
- Baseball before it had a playoff system prior to the World Series.
- Weddings that didn’t cost $25,000 to $50,000.
- A dial tone.
- Coffee in a one-pound can or sack.
- Woolworth’s, McCrory Stores, A&P, Foremost Milk, and Grapette.
- Neighborhoods where people didn’t own automatic weapons for whatever reasons they own them now.
- Vent windows in cars.
- The Atlantic when it was called The Atlantic Monthly and published fiction and poetry rather than being a quasi-political magazine.
- Book review sections in most major newspapers.
- Reporters who didn’t find ways to get their personal opinions into their stories.
- The Hardy Boys.
- Cameras that used film.
- Young people who didn’t expect to have (right out of college) the kinds of houses, cars and furnishings their parents took a lifetime of hard work to acquire.
- Christmas decorations that weren’t put out before Thanksgiving and weren’t thrown out before nightfall on December 25th.
- A restaurant entrée that included meat, several vegetable side dishes and a salad rather that a slice of nearly raw meat perched on top of sautéd greens and a swipe of colorful sauce across the plate prepared by a food stylist.
- Playing outside with old toys and a lot of dirt.
- Clean rivers.
- Multiple varieties of U.S.-grown apples.
- Stuff in stores that wasn’t encased in hard-to-remove clear plastic.
- Route 66.
- Airports without TSA.
- Seeing a movie in a theater for $1.00.
- Buying a candy bar for 50₵
- Having a ₵ sign on my keyboard.
- Silver dollars and $2 bills.
- Catalogue, Hallowe’en and Doughnut rather than Catalog, Halloween and Donut.
- Getting a margarita without an act of Congress to have it served without ice, without goofy flavorings and with salt around the rim of the glass.
- A wedge of lettuce with thousand island dressing with the blue plate special at the lunch counter.
- City streets before texting.
- Gas stations where the attendant pumped the gasoline, washed the windows, checked the oil and water, and swept the car floors with a whisk broom.
- A Walmart-free town.